Open marriages where each partner consents to sex outside of marriage — is this a good idea? What about swinging with other couples?



Be honest, do you really feel comfortable committing to sex with one person, and only one person, for the next 50 years?

Of course not. Nobody does. Sexual monogamy is dead.

However, individual sex outside of marriage is a bad idea. There’s too much potential for “special, alone time” with the third-party, which could lead to an emotional relationship, more than a sexual relationship. This is especially true for the female half of the couple — women are more emotionally attached to sex than men.

“Swinging” is entirely different though. It’s pure sex without the emotional aftertaste. A great way to “cheat” without cheating. 2 couples, 1 bed, nothing’s off-limits (except gay stuff, assuming the guys aren’t bi).

Most men think they’ll be jealous in this situation, watching another dude with his wife. But remember, you’re with the other dude’s wife, so it’s all good.

Men also think it’s kind of gay being that close to another naked man. Come on, you’ve seen plenty of naked men in porn.

Just don’t make eye contact with the other guy. Because that would be totally gay.


6 Responses to “Swinging”

  1. 1 Anonymous November 13, 2006 at 10:28 pm

    The last sentance of your answer totally just made my day. Pud = Amazing

  2. 2 Katie November 13, 2006 at 10:32 pm

    I don’t think that “Sexual monogamy is dead”

  3. 3 Anonymous November 14, 2006 at 4:09 am

    long time FC and askpud.com reader here.

    so great to see you actually answering questions again.

    please keep it up

  4. 4 Anonymous November 14, 2006 at 1:04 pm

    Thanks Pud… just the confirmation i was looking for

  5. 5 ChairmanTao November 15, 2006 at 1:47 pm

    Wise words indeed.

    you need to cover orgies as well – or does it just scale up with the same principle ?

  6. 6 Anonymous November 23, 2006 at 9:21 am


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