Truth or dare

Pud,

This saturday night my boyfriend was out clubbing with his cousins. When I called him that night, he tells me all excitedly that some random girl came up and kissed him as part of a “truth or dare” game.

I’m pissed.

Do you think I’m overreacting?

Please advise,
Ruma

Ruma,

You should be pissed, but flattered. After all, of all the guys in the club, they picked yours.

And you really shouldn’t be that pissed.

Unlike women, men separate the physical and mental aspects of sex. On one side of the spectrum would be, say, your boyfriend keeping a mistress. In that case, you’d be justified in feeling pissed.

But on the other side of the spectrum is…well, some random girl running up to him at a bar playing truth or dare.

Rock on,
Pud

5 Responses to “Truth or dare”


  1. 1 Anonymous November 11, 2006 at 8:13 pm

    It might not be a good thing that she was dared to kiss this guy – what if it was because he was really ugly?

  2. 2 Kansasgal2 November 12, 2006 at 1:27 am

    what guy would think of himself as butt ugly? he gave advice stemming from his own idea of justification..or, am i wrong?

  3. 3 Anonymous November 12, 2006 at 1:44 am

    Its emotions that led her to be pissed when her boyfriend was kissed by another girl.We in India believe do not expect too much from others as wishes are not horses when dashed sorrow results afterall all men and women are multi sexual.Enjoy life.Be Positive.Easier said than done but we must be proactive,synergic,positiveand have confidence with self motivation.

  4. 4 Anonymous November 12, 2006 at 11:48 am

    hey, at least he told her. That means he wants her to know and wasn’t ashamed of it. he actually wanted his girl to be his friend for just one minute and think that it was as crazy or funny just like what he thought.

  5. 5 dsfowler March 30, 2008 at 11:53 am

    Don’t be pissed. He was truthful. He didn’t try to hide it. Its part of intimacy to be open and truthful. Besides, this won’t matter in a year orso… maybe a month or so.. maybe a week. Hopefully, its not mattering NOW!


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